Everyone hate to be lonely, quiet
Everyone want to have someone to love and love by someone
Everyone dream to have a perfect husband or wife
However, people got ever think of these?
Are you prepare to be love or love by somebody?
First of all, starts it with a single life..
you may think that single life would be the end of one relationship
but i can say it is the beginning of a relationship.
What can we do in single life?
Well, we start to built up our personalities here. Before we ready to accept a long term relationship.
When you are in relationship, you tend to change, change to a person that your lover want to be
Why not we built up our personalities first, then suit with our future one.
Be gentleman, learn how to manage your finance, do house work, do cooking stuff, care people, be independent, work hard, study hard and etc are those thing we have to learn.
It's normal stuff right? ya this how we built our own character.
I read a book that make me shook and inspired me recently.
The book shared a story:
A guy happen to see a handwriting on a book that he borrowed from library. He impressed by her handwriting. He tried to search for her contact by using yellow pages. He found it, they started to wrote letter to each other. He was a soldier, so he started to traveled for the war. However, they still sending letter. He realized that he was having feeling on her and asked for her picture. She straight rejected he with: No, I won't. Relationships are not built on what people look like. Still, he urged to meet her in person. After he got a leave, and return to the country, they meet up at a restaurant. On that day she will wearing a red rose blouse that she mentioned on the letter before they met up. The day had come, he wait patiently at the restaurant. A green blouse girl came towards he, she looks slim and pretty. She approached he. He almost forgot she was not in red rose blouse. But then, a forty over woman which was plump stand behind her wearing a red rose blouse. The girl in green blouse walked away quickly. He has to make a decision whether to follow her or an older lady.. He made a decision without hesitate. He walked towards the old lady and introduce himself.. The older lady started with a smile and said, "I don't know what is this all about, son," she continued,"but you know that the girl with green blouse just went by? i met her on the train. She begged me to wear this rose in my coat. she said that if you should ask me to dinner, to tell you she is waiting for you in that big restaurant across the street. she said it was some kind of test."
Guys, can you pass this test?
Seriously, i will struggle there and make a wrong decision if i were he.
I found that i still long way to go, i have many things to learn and improve.
I know what to do within this "repolarization" period. =)
